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Pregnancy makes me hate my OH

(14 Posts)
ExpectoPatronummmm Sat 11-Feb-17 10:44:54

He snores all the feckin time
He breathes heavy when awake
He eats noisily
He has to be made to do house work
He farts all the time
He poohs 3 times a day and leaves a stink
He throws his socks and undies on the floor

buckyou Sat 11-Feb-17 11:31:44

Pregnancy makes me hate everyone!

mistletoeprickles Sat 11-Feb-17 12:34:09

I'm with you on this.

Last night I wanted cheese, he'd eaten all the cheese but he hadn't told me. I'm the one who does the fucking shopping! We were not friends for a good few hours.

He's used to me hating him now and when I rant he cuddles me. Makes the argument one sided.

Imavinoops Sat 11-Feb-17 12:40:21

Mine breaths funny.
Wiggles around.
Wants CUDDLES (ergh)
Eats loudly.
Makes a mess.

The list is endless right now and I never noticed before I was pregnant! grin

NewDOOFUSfor17 Sat 11-Feb-17 12:43:37

I was exactly the same, ds is nearly 5 now and I can just about tolerate him 😂😂

I found it awful to feel so pissed off at him all the time, before pregnancy he could do not wrong in my eyes and I think it was a shock for him too.

You do get over it though, promise grin

BingThing Sat 11-Feb-17 13:07:54

I can totally relate op. My dp farts smell so bad in the night it wakes me up. He snores like a pig from hell. He takes his socks off in bed and leaves them in there!! He glugs all cold drinks down in one and goes 'ahh' EVERYTIME like his just walked through the feckin desert or something. I'm nearly eight months pg and all my anger is directed at him. And deservedly so I'd say!!

BingThing Sat 11-Feb-17 13:13:03

Ps lol at imavinoops at being grossed out my cuddle attempts!! This is my third and I'm the same every time I'm pregnant - must be a sub conscious form of "er dont think you're coming near me ever again if this is how i end up" contraception! Ha ha!

ExpectoPatronummmm Sat 11-Feb-17 13:52:20

Oh good I'm glad I'm not the only one. And I agree with the cuddling. Im like BACK OFF and don't touch me!!

Imavinoops Sat 11-Feb-17 15:34:41

Haha the cuddling thing upsets me very much. My dog isn't getting any cuddles and the DSS is taking up whatever cuddles I can manage during the day! wink

What makes DP think he gets any!
Haha, by the time he gets home my own arms are irritating me by brushing against my belly. He has no hope! grin

Jojo13 Sun 12-Feb-17 09:03:00

Haha! Love this post, I'm so glad I wasn't alone! Could barely be bothered to speak to OH especially in the first trimester, he couldn't do anything right. 3 weeks left to go now so fear it may start heading that way again.. grin

MrsK8541 Sun 12-Feb-17 11:38:24

This makes me feel better at fighting off the cuddles dp keeps trying to give me. I love him to bits but he is annoying me sooo much. And keeps suggesting we go out for dinner when he knows I can hardly stomach crackers with this morning sickness?!

kikibo Sun 12-Feb-17 18:50:11

Here not gone off cuddles, but he SNORES before I can fall asleep, when he turns over, he makes the bed go too much up and down, he wants a poo shortly before I need to throw up in the same toilet bowl (uhm, no), farts loudly AND he ate all the sandwich ham for lunch!
I had a good go at him... until he pointed out that I 'scoffed all the salami yesterday, knowing full well the shops were closed on a Sunday.' Two packets worth... Then I burst into tears... lol

No really, he's done all the housework he can while I've been lying on the sofa for about 3 months with sickness or an iffy stomach, so really I can't complain. And at the moment he's making fried potatoes and steak because I vetoed the pasta & tomato sauce with it because I had it yesterday... Really, I don't deserve him.

cantmakeme Sun 12-Feb-17 21:56:10

Is it early pregnancy op? I was like this until the end of the first trimester. I thought he smelt weird, and kept washing his pillow cases obsessively! He seemed so annoying. Now I'm later in pregnancy I am more affectionate than I have ever been with him!

Whyarealltheusernamestaken Mon 13-Feb-17 01:19:17

Reading this has made me feel better, I'm in my first trimester and first pregnancy. My partner made such a bad smell a couple of nights ago I got angry as it made me feel sick, he went into fits of laughter and I cried and ordered him out the room....he didn't go and tried to cuddle me and I threw a tantrum like a three year old! I did calm down, he found it hilarious, I hate him so much :P

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