We had our 12 week scan the other day and I was totally taken back by it. It's a bit shit going through the notions. TMOMC (I have to write that since you all hate me writing BM) has been through this all before and obviously doesn't react to things the same way I do since it's my first child.
Obviously at the 8 week scan, the baby was just a little blob, but to go to the 12 week scan and see the baby with all it's fingers and it's feet and little arms and legs, and to see it stretching around and moving was so surreal. I had a little moment to myself where my relaxedness towards having a child was beginning to disappear. I managed to get control of it but with the situation between me and TMOMC somewhat getting worse, I began to panic and wondered if I've actually got what it takes to be a dad. I suppose I should take what everyone tells me more to heart when they say I'm gonna be a good dad. I think the side of parenting that people don't talk about when it comes to being a dad, is what scares me. The provision and the time management....I suppose just finance really. And since me and TMOMC are looking to coparent (you wouldn't believe how much it hurts to say that word), I worry that I'm going to miss out on a lot, I worry that I'm not going to be there when I'm needed the most.
I'm only 12 weeks in and already starting to feel a bit of anxiety.
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12wk scan was surreal and fatherhood is starting to scare me
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Gregwar · 10/02/2017 11:08
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