3rd pregnancy. The midwife has suggested a home birth. At first I was a bit. Eeerrrrmmmmm no thank you. But the more I think about it. It makes sense. We have 2 ds. Aged 3 and 2. And no family or friends who can look after them when time comes. So it would mean bundling them in the car and who knows what time. Dropping me at the hospital and dh going home with them. My last 2 births were only 7 hours labour and 2o minutes pushing. But my second I ended up being induced as contractions stopped and after 24 hours they induced me. Contractions started as they induced me and after 6 hours he was born. So yeah 6 or 7 hours ish. Hoping this is the same. No pain relief so I'm not worrying about that. But I think I stressed myself out as I had never left ds 1 alone with someone 3lse before nd I was worrying about him. So I think that's why the Contractions stopped. So maybe a home birth would be better all round. I had in laws as child care last time but they don't live in the country and won't be visiting so no one else available. Dh missed first birth as he went home thinking it would be fine to get my bag and the ds 1 decided to show the minutes later. Ds 2 I kicked him out of the room when it came to pushing. I don't think he would have coped with the mess and I just wanted to concentrate and I personally didn't want him to see all the other yucky stuff. So I can go to hospital not worried about being on my own. Quite prefer that. But basically can I have some home birth experiences please....
Sorry that was so long
TIA
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preparedtobeshotdown · 06/01/2017 23:00
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