Apologies, but dropping in for a rant.
I am totally fed up of the pressure from people who suspect I am pregnant. I am 10 weeks, and we didn't want to tell anyone until the scan - later if possible due to the risk of mcg.
But people at work - the HR manager (who is also a friend) has pieced together the evidence (decafff, no booze at xmas party, day off with husband who also works here to attend scan, cancellation of skiing holiday) and is now constantly asking whether I have something to tell her.
And then our cleaner (don't judge it is only two hours a week - we work full time!) has obviously been poking around and has noticed the books by my bed and left a note of congratulations!
Others have been the same. It is really getting on my nerves, I don't want to formally tell work yet as if it the pregnancy goes wrong, it could compromise my prospects here if they knew I was trying.
Why can't people just but the f**k out and let us tell them when they are ready! It might be fun for them to guess, but having to tell everyone if we have a miscarriage would not be so fun for me.
Sorry - rant over! Am I overreacting here?
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Libbylove2015 · 05/01/2017 12:16
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