This is my rant and rave... I dont know where to share ... as after all they are DH parents and I can say very limited (carefully chosen) words about them..
I am 38+3 ... with second... They are coming to help out...... .. much awaited (by DH) visit from other country (That means stay will be longer 2-3 months)...
but I am going mad, crazy, very anxious..in my mind everything is going upside down... I may look calm from out side........
There are many +ves of their visit also.. as they can look after DS1 when we will be busy hospital... I have not to worry about food, cleaning and house hold etc. after delivery and all..
But last time when they came on DS1 time.. my MIL nose on everything.. she always try to prove that how her way of doing things are better than me... even how to taking care of DS1 also can be better... giving unwanted advises... FIL even questioned our 2nd pregnancy when we gave them news by saying .. "are you sure about this and the timing??" when DH told yes we are sure and it was a planned one and would like to invite them at birth time and for helping out .. then they felt exited... may be exited about visit.. more than pregnancy 
I complained a bit of MIL behaviour to DH ... then he said he knows her behaviour and I also know .. just listen from one ear and throw by other if whatever I dont like...As she is helping out .. and will be here only for some time.
I was also expecting their visit as we dont have anyone here from family to help out 
...I tried and trying to keep calm... but as the time coming ... It is getting on my nerves.... I dont know ?? how to look and stay calm and not to be anxious??
Thanks for reading
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You may get laugh on my misery [confused] .... In laws coming in evening
Saku · 17/12/2016 16:25
It's 2-3 months. Smile nod and fake cry when they fly home. Then forget everything they've said to you. If you don't want the advice, just thank them but do it your way. Parents will ALWAYS try to tell you how you should do things, just like I'm sure you'll be telling your children the same. It's a perk of being a grandparent. Lol 
There is no way on earth I'd have my in-laws to stay for that long! My mum is sadly dead, but if she were alive there is no way I'd want her (who I loved very much) staying for more than even a few days! No no no. I think you need to sit down and have a frank conversation with your husband and say they can't stay that long. How many bedrooms do you have? I am one of those people who can't stand people dishing out advice when it's not asked for. Of course i can cope with small doses but if they're living with you 
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There is no way on earth I'd have my in-laws to stay for that long! My mum is sadly dead, but if she were alive there is no way I'd want her (who I loved very much) staying for more than even a few days! No no no. I think you need to sit down and have a frank conversation with your husband and say they can't stay that long. How many bedrooms do you have? I am one of those people who can't stand people dishing out advice when it's not asked for. Of course i can cope with small doses but if they're living with you .
Hi find all tips very useful... now they are already here.. I cant help the duration of their stay..
when they came they poured lots of love on us.. and still on DS1 and on DH.. but from morning she already started taunting on me .. and trying to show as she is cracking jokes...(laughing afterwards)...
my mind already started roasting up... when I saw towards my DH ... he just winked me and gave a signal to shrug off..
sometimes he just take my side.. just saying.. "let it be mom.. leave it"
I asked before then DH told that ..he told them not to be mean so much towards me this time while on the way coming airport to home ... but still she is doing it and trying to be funny.. (Habits doesnt go really 
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I am trying to stay calm .. but when I will be boiled.. I cant controll ... I am going to blow up on DH .. I know
thanks for support
jokes like - Playing with DS (3y).. and talking to him loudly.... and saying .. ohh poor you .. how lean have been............... mamma is not giving you food .. mamma was not giving you food ha ha ha ... true ha ha
I said yes mamma has ate all the food 
yes that is good that DH is sticking with me most of the time.. I feel his situation also miserable I dont want it to make worse.. as he becomes pendulum between me and them..
Even she commented on my dress ... that it is showing more bump than it should be .... I got very pissed off.. and told on her on her face that .. me and my husband dont have any problem of showing "more" till now ... I am not going to change my dress.... she just put off by that..
But she is going on as it is.. with other things...
As I said .. Habits dont go .. is it????????
Thanks for all your support... I am not going to take this time .. as last time......... I know any way we have to deal with it... I cant rant about each and everything MIL commented ...
Thank you
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