I found out I was pregnant about a week ago and so far we've kept it down low. I told my partner first because we had our suspicions but now he is freaking out. He wants me to abort because we haven't been together long and although we both work and have jobs we don't live together. He said he would be excited if it was to happen further down the line but now isn't the right time. I understand where he is coming from totally but all I've wanted since I can remember is a family and children of my own. I've been through the alternative before and can't put myself through that again. I've explained to him that we can take it step by step and go through it together and we don't need to rush anything but he is adamant on not keeping this child. I don't know what to do? I thought he was coming round the other day but he still says no. Any ideas on how to put his mind at ease and try and help him understand where I'm coming from? I've spoken to one of my friends about this and she has said he just needs time. I understand that. But there's only so much time I can give him. Any advice would be brilliant?
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