I'm feeling a bit blue today. I'm 11 weeks pregnant with my first and going through all the usual emotions - excitement, fear, worry, happiness, etc in a cycle.
OH is finding it very hard to be excited and is just stressing about this baby, but doesn't talk about his emotions very much. In honesty if I hadn't pushed for this, he would be more than happy plodding on with normal life. He just keeps saying "it'll be okay when it's here" but won't really engage in any other conversations about it.
My mum is very excited for us and has asked him if he's excited etc but he finds this really stressful and has now asked me to ask my mum to reign it in.
I want him to talk to me about his worries as it might help him, but at the same time I'm scared to do that because I don't think my responses will be rational! I need him to be with me on this, and am finding it hard that he is stressed out. Don't get me wrong he's supportive, but I don't think he shares any of the happiness with me yet.
I KNOW it's scary and stressful but I also want him to see how our lives will change for the better and how exciting it is. I actually just want him to give himself a kick up the arse! We have our 12 week scan next week and I'm just worried he's going to crumble when people know and are congratulating us etc. I want to be excited about this and am finding it hard because I don't want to stress him out further.
I just needed to vent here really...and wondered if any ladies had partners who were similar.
I'm sure once this baby comes he'll be fine but I'm just not sure how to handle it as normally I'd get him talking and offer solutions but I am too emotional about it all to be able to do that rationally!
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MissClarke86 · 24/08/2016 11:06
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