I'm starting to get really down about DP not being more interested in the pregnancy. He has other DC from previous relationships and he did warn me that he wasn't a big fan of pregnancy (he won't even touch my bump ) but that he will be very hands on when the baby's born. So I guess I knew what I was getting into. He picked the names for his other DC and said he had been very lucky that he got his own way, but he has told me that our baby's name is up to me...I've been throwing names at him and twice he's said, 'I don't care, call her what you want'. I've bought a few little bits from mothercare and he's not really bothered and he acted surprised when I said I'd like us to go shopping together. This is my first baby, I've waited a bloody long time for her and I guess I just thought we'd share the excitement a bit more, but he's been there and done it all and it's killing my buzz a bit! It feels like he's just given me his sperm so I can have a baby because it's what I want. I asked him about the births of his other DC and he said his ex 'made a bit of a meal of labour' with his youngest!! So now I don't think I even want him there for the birth. I literally know nothing about babies, I've only ever held one, and I feel like such an idiot because although I'm so excited, I'm also terrified. I wish he could at least empathise with that! I have to say that this aside he is the happiest, kindest most generous man I've ever met and I absolutely adore him. Is it a case of just getting the next few months out the way because he's not gonna change??
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