I don't even know why I'm writing this, other than i'm gutted at the timing of the way this has all worked out.
I'm having dc2 by elcs on Monday, and last Sunday, my DC1 came down with the pox.
I've had my pre op meeting with midwife today who has advised that DC1 doesn't visit the hospital to see new sibling at all- I was hoping if all the scabs were formed then he'd ben able to visit as Dr Google says they are not infectious then.
Obviously I wouldn't want to risk any harm to any babies on maternity wards so will do what we are advised....
But I feel so upset. I won't see my DC1 for at least 2, possibly 3 days. He won't be the first person to meet baby as we'd planned. He is so excited about baby coming and now he'll need to wait til we come home to meet him/ her.
I'm tearing up writing this.
Please give me a virtual slap around the chops and tell me I'm making a fuss about nothing.
Or any ideas of how to make DC1 feel included are welcome too.
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Elcs on Monday, DC1 has chickenpox!
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Glitterkitten24 · 07/04/2016 15:20
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