I am so sorry to post this, but everything is just crap and I don’t know who else to talk to. I think I just need to write it down…
…I am 22 weeks pregnant. The pregnancy has been fine apart from the standard sickness and nausea for the first 12 weeks. But I am done. I am fed up and tired and just done. I have a 3 year old daughter who is so full of energy all the time and I have none! I am uncomfortable and more emotional than I have ever been.
The emotional thing is partly pregnancy and partly because my aunt recently died within 3 weeks of a cancer diagnosis. We were all really close to her and it came completely out of the blue. My mum has the same cancer as her sister had and it is terminal. We have an appointment with a genetics clinic to see if she carries a gene as all women on that side of the family have had breast cancer and a lot of them were later diagnosed with secondary breast cancer.
It's looming like a horrible loomy cancerous cloud.
I just feel like I am wading through treacle. And tears.
DH is great and so patient with me, but I know that he doesn’t get it. Particularly the pregnancy issues (I have varicose veins down there already). I don’t really want to talk to my sisters about it because they are going through the same thing (minus being pregnant) and my mum is mourning her sister.
I know that no one can do anything but I just need to be told that I can do this and it is all going to be ok!!
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lemonslemonslemons · 04/02/2016 11:44
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