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terrified about scan tomorrow

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RoTo72 Sun 22-Nov-15 12:26:15

Positive vibes/prayers/healing crystals whatever you all believe in, needed sent my way. Had scan two weeks ago at 6 weeks 0 days. Found two yolk sacs and one fetus, no heartbeat. Doc said might just have been too early to detect hb, or pregnancy hasn't progressed. This past two weeks have been scary to say the least. Iv had slight spotting and cramping a few times, no symptoms from Friday. Yesterday the cramps were stronger and the spotting was red. It came and went all day. This morning it had settled, tho pinkish spotting now. I'm so so frightened incase I'm having a mc. Have done nothing but cry, had terrible panic attack at 1am and paced the house to about 3am. Oh has been fantastic, I am naturally a worrier, but I'm actually terrified. Oh has just left for work, wont be home to after 7 and I dunno how I'm gonna hold it together, ds (15) is here so don't want to upset him by seeing me upset. Heads banging from all the crying, eyes r raw, feel pathetic, know I need to woman up, I'm 43 not some young girl. Sorry for rant.

Mayor22 Sun 22-Nov-15 12:31:42

Sending you lots of love and a brew, what an awful wait for you. Is your scan early tomorrow morning? Try to get as much rest as possible and a box set of something to try and pass the time. I'm really hoping for a positive result for you flowers

RoTo72 Sun 22-Nov-15 12:32:51

Thank you so much. Yes 9.30 so at least I don't have all day tomorrow to worry too.

emmac3616 Sun 22-Nov-15 12:33:25

Good luck, hope it turns out well xxx

Champagneformyrealfriends Sun 22-Nov-15 13:03:10

flowers xxxx

RoTo72 Sun 22-Nov-15 13:08:38

Takes ladies. Really appreciate you taking time to comment. X

RoTo72 Sun 22-Nov-15 13:09:04


brookeberry Sun 22-Nov-15 16:07:37

Hi RoTo very good luck for tomorrow. I know how nerve-wracking these scans can be, but they can also be wonderful. Sending lots of love smile

RoTo72 Sun 22-Nov-15 16:29:58


3littlebadgers Sun 22-Nov-15 16:35:17

flowers sending you lots of possitive thoughts. The lack of being able to do anything to help the situation is difficult to bare, isn't it?

amysmummy12345 Sun 22-Nov-15 16:36:36

thinking of you Roto72, you've done so well to get through these two weeks, stay positive and i know its the hardest advice to follow but try to stay calm, put your feet up and take it easy until tomorrow, xxx

RoTo72 Sun 22-Nov-15 16:41:47

Thanks. Amys I'm not even showered yet, that's how easy I'm taking it! Oh did a bit of tidy up before he went to work and he's ordering dinner to bring home from local hotel. Gonna jump in bath, light some candles and chill.

Champagneformyrealfriends Sun 22-Nov-15 22:22:52

Sending lots of positive vibes for tomorrow! Xxxx

Jw35 Sun 22-Nov-15 22:30:29

Good luck thanks I really hope you get to keep your baby xxx

RoTo72 Sun 22-Nov-15 22:49:28

Thanks girls

GloriaHotcakes Sun 22-Nov-15 22:51:28

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RoTo72 Mon 23-Nov-15 00:05:39


HeartShapedBox Mon 23-Nov-15 00:17:33

Hope everything goes well at your scan flowers

Flowersonthewall Mon 23-Nov-15 00:26:05

I've got a scan too in the morning, repeat scan after going in last Monday with some bleeding. Saw a sac but no heartbeat so back in the morning to see if things have progressed. Have had no more bleeding but cannot sleep. Am just counting down. Such a horrible wait. Xx.

y0rkier0se Mon 23-Nov-15 00:26:42

flowers good luck

RoTo72 Mon 23-Nov-15 00:39:40

It is flowers. I'd cramping from before my bfp, now every twinge sends me into panic mode running to the bathroom to check. Had the same cramping with Ds but it was 16yrs ago this week I got pregnant with him and compared to now, it was a breeze, took it in my stride.

RoTo72 Mon 23-Nov-15 00:41:36

Good luck for tomorrow too flowers

LouLou030783 Mon 23-Nov-15 06:09:59

Good luck hope everything goes well xx

rainbowstardrops Mon 23-Nov-15 06:14:05

Hope all goes well todayflowers

Iammad Mon 23-Nov-15 07:20:50

Thinking of you today flowers

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