Hi, I'm currently 24 weeks pregnant with DD2.
Obviously when we found out we were expecting again we started to make plans for who would have DD1 who will be 3, and who would be there when I give birth this time.
Thought it best for my mum to have DD1 as they're very close and I can trust her completely, especially considering you never know how long you'll be staying in.
Now last time I had my mum with me as well as my partner when giving birth, she was fantastic and provided much needed support.
Now this time she won't be there due to having DD1, so I thought perhaps my MIL might want to be there for this time, as she wasn't with her own daughter when she gave birth (via EMCS) and the conversation ended with her saying she doesn't know if she'd want to be there, looking a bit apprehensive too.
So I thought that's fine, I can understand that of course. So I asked my sister who was quite delighted! She's only 18 and has been watching all the birth programmes on TV she can find and is quite excited.
All fine and dandy, until today when MIL looked offended when mentioned that my sister would be there and then said "No, I'm going to be there!" - Que absolute shock from me and now I'm really confused.
So now I'm going to have to tell one of them they can't be there and I don't think it's fair that my sister should not be there after 20 odd weeks of thinking she will be, when MIL didn't even give me a straight answer.
I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but I don't know how to go about it.
Sorry it's long, didn't want to drip feed and its a bit complicated! Thanks if you got this far!
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