Just come back from routine midwife appointment, I'm 24w4d so not even sure why I had this appointment at it's normally at 26 weeks but the appointment was made for me and I didn't question it. This was my third time seeing the midwife since becoming pregnant and I have yet to see the same midwife more then once. The first one I saw changed locations between my first and second appointment, the second one told me she was replacing her and would be here for the long run but today I saw someone else. The one I saw today wasn't familiar with the practice so didn't now where anything was or how to adjust the bed which I know isn't the end of the world or her fault but she was quite unprofessional about it, getting quite frustrated about it all and marching around the room constantly muttering that she didn't know where stuff was so I was going to have to make do without.
I know none of these things actually matter much and I'm just having a bit of a rant but I was quite frustrated as this is my second pregnancy and I had quite a difficult second half of second/third trimester with dd three years ago and there were I few things I wanted to discuss with the midwife but between her agitation and the fact that she just wasn't very friendly/approachable I wasn't really able to. I tried to but I don't think she understood that these were genuine concerns of mine as I didn't really get a response other than "all pregnancies are different, so don't worry".
Also a bit put off by the fact that she started pointing out stretch marks to me saying I was getting quite stretched, I'm really not! A few of my old stretch marks from when I had dd are darkening a little but for all intent and purpose I have barely changed shaped yet in this pregnancy and I am barely showing so I am not getting stretched out just yet. And I think I know which stretch marks have been there since last time and which haven't as I only have a handful of them and I'm quite familiar with them. She also wouldn't let me ge off the bed until I demonstrated that I knew how to roll off the bed rather than just get out normally and she insisted that it was a skill I needed to master because as I got bigger I wouldn't be able to just get out of bed. Well I have been pregnant before and she knows this, not only because 3yo dd was in the room with me, I can roll off a bed and I know I will get bigger.
Again I know this doesn't matter at all in the grand scheme of things but it annoyed me, it made me feel like a disobedient child when she stood over me and demanded that I get off the bed her way or not at all. I think it's because she was a bit harsh in her mannerism. Anyway, bit of a pointless rant I guess but feel better for writing it down. Thanks for reading if you get that far, sorry it's so long.
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Aaaargh, annoyed with midwife appointment
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ILiveOnABuildsite · 06/01/2015 15:24
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