Hi
I'm pregnant with DC2 and feeling very guilty. We had been trying for a few months and were/are very happy about it. But it is just so different from my first pregnancy. When I was pregnant with PFB every day we talked about the baby and discussed baby names, what we needed etc but this time we have barely sorted anything out yet (am almost 28 weeks).
Part of that is because we have most things that we need but also I've got a 3 year old this time round so each day is busy and time seems to be going so quickly. Also, we are going through a stressful time with my DH and his job/our relationship so a lot of my thoughts are taken up with that.
Is it normal to not spend as much time thinking/planning second time round or is it because my mind is preoccupied with other things? I'm feeling so guilty that I should be enjoying this more but instead I'm worrying about things. But don't know if its normal to spend less time when you're pregnant second time round? Were your pregnancies the same in terms of how excited you were, how much you thought about it?
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Feeling different about second pregnancy?
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KeepSmiling83 · 01/01/2015 17:57
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