So we have just found out that we are pregnant for the first time. My partners family live in NZ apart from his older brother who lives in london. We were hoping to wait til our first scan to tell our families but now said brother in law has invited himself to xmas with us and i am so hot can only wear my pjs and bra and fresh air makes me nauseous. Never mind the fact i own a pub and wont be drinking over xmas. We dont really have any choice but to tell him. Unfortunately he is an arse. He is 30 with the emotional capabilities of a caterpillar at best. Telling him means we have to tell our parents and other siblings. We know he is going to freak out, possibly storm out, try to convince us that we arent ready and we should give baby up and lord knows what he will say to his mother behind our backs. Probably that i tricked my partner and am forcing him into it. I can safely guss this because this is what he did when he found out we were engaged in sept. Bare in mind my partner and i have been together for 5 years and lived together for 6.... anyway this is mainly a rant but anyone who would like to bad mouth him be my guest and any anti murder tips would be gratefully received. i just feel for my partner he feels so unsupported by his family and they are so far away (thankfully )
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