Please tell me if I'm being unreasonable here and how you would tackle the situation- I'm pg with DC1 and v lucky to have a loving supportive DH but last wk we were talking about GPs and DH remarked "this baby is so lucky, it will have three grandads". He is estranged from his father, hasn't seen him since he was five and MIL has had a string of different BFs over the years the latest of which has been around about 5 years. DH and his siblings are also still close with another BF who was around when they were kids. They are both lovely people and I'm delighted that they will play a big role in our childs life but they are not its GPs. Basically, DH would like the baby to call them both grandad and I'm not keen (He does not call either of them dad btw). He feels v strongly about this and we've argued a couple of times now. I'm also worried that calling them grandad will upset my dad, the babys real grandfather who will play a much bigger role in this baby's life than the other two. what would you do? Sorry for the long post!
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