I'll be 31/32 weeks at Christmas. Originally we were going to be hosting with my in-laws coming down to us but MIL now wants us to come up to them as she thinks the travelling would be too much for GIL.
Apart from the travelling and needing to make arrangements for our cats my main worry is about food. When we visit in-laws they always have food at odd and unpredictable times.
I found this hard enough when I wasn't pregnant but now am really worried about it. I've been suffering from indigestion and heartburn and need to have something (small) to eat quite regularly. Last time we visited (about 20 weeks) I had to get my DH to ask if we could have lunch (getting on for 3pm) as I was feeling ill and he was told off for this. Also she tends to service rather rich food (lots of creamy dressings) although always checks the key ingredients with me knowing I'm fussy. She's told me her own pregnancy was easy and she felt better than normal so think she doesn't really understand.
Would I be unreasonable to take some food along to eat when I need to -thinking first thing in the morning (they get up late), and for when meals aren't materialising. And if so what? I would normally eat toast or cereal and would aim for high fibre type foods but am not allowed in the kitchen (or even to send DH in) and don't want to cause her a fuss. Have previously taken cereal bars but think they'll be too sweet.
I'm really worried about being sick when I'm there or them making a fuss or giving me a "cure" to try when all I want is a soaked towel and to go to bed.
Any advice would be great!
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JennyBlueWren · 07/12/2014 15:24
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