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Twizzle11 Tue 18-Nov-14 15:22:25

Had my midwife appoitment today I've had. Brown blood a couple of days but now bright red no clots as yet but after 3 previous miscarriages I have to prepare myself . Scan on Friday .
I am deveistated x

gingerbreadmam Tue 18-Nov-14 15:43:20

that is awful, thinking of you. don't want to give you false hope but im in a terrible situation myself at the minute had a scan almost 2 weeks ago which didnt look good they said to expect mc. Back for a rescan thursday, nothing has happened so trying to keep positive.

Anyway, i range the epau last week for more info about scan (first pregnancy and i dont know much tbh) and explained about the small amount of spotting and small bleed i had and she said sometimes people have a tiny bleed and you think it is going to be ok but its bad news and sometimes people bleed a lot and you think the worst and then everything is ok.

you never know. keep your feet up as my mam kept telling me. i hope youre ok. fingers crossed.

Twizzle11 Tue 18-Nov-14 15:57:09

Thanks gingerbreadmam .

I keep hopeing that maybe as no clots perhaps there might be a chance I just wish I had a scan tomorrow at least I could if there is another reason for the blood .
I hope when you have your scan on Thursday it's good news x let me know
Wishing us both all the best x

gingerbreadmam Tue 18-Nov-14 16:40:34

its probably an old wives tale but my mam is insistant keeping your legs raised can prevent / stop it. stupid i know but if u felt like i did last week anything is worth a try!

thank you. i think its probs bad news getting discharge / spotting and dont really feel pregnant anymore but at least ive had two weeks to get my head round it.

will keep fingers tightly crossed for us both and everyone else on this awful situation.

Jodie1982 Tue 18-Nov-14 22:11:56

Sorry to hear your going through this, keeping everything crossed for you Hun. Wishing you all the very best. X

Twizzle11 Wed 19-Nov-14 10:44:03

Well .bleeding has vertually stopped now nothing on pad and very little just inside only only had one clot .is this good ? No pain .my scan is on Friday .
This isn't like my last miscarriages but then I don't want hope too much x

gingerbreadmam Wed 19-Nov-14 20:34:15

i have no experience twizzle. rest up only two days away hope everything is well. fingers crossed.

Twizzle11 Thu 20-Nov-14 14:29:44

After it coming to a stop last night started. Bleeding again and still am no pain no clots and clear blue still showing 3+1 . Hopeing against hope there is another reason for the blood . Just resting until scan tomorrow . Thanks for your thoughts x

gingerbreadmam Thu 20-Nov-14 14:50:07

oh gosh its awful bet tomoro cant come quick enough. try and stay laid up either in bed or on the sofa, if you can sleep do that. time passes faster when youre sleeping.

will keep my fingers crossed for you tomo hope you get good news!

Twizzle11 Thu 20-Nov-14 14:59:35

I have spent the feeling feeling horrible still have sire bobs abd dizziness also felt quite ill . I am just not sure how I will cope if it's bad news .i just feel so pregnant . X
Have you had your scan gingerbreadmam ?

gingerbreadmam Thu 20-Nov-14 15:26:13

the day before my scan two weeks ago was the worst day of morning sickness i experienced. i still also have sore boobs altho admitedly not as bad as the once were.

i had rescan this morning, no change so unfortunately i have mmc. baby stoppes growing at 5 weeks, i would have been 11 weeks today. just have to wait to mc naturally now as my hospital are working to new guidelines. slightly relieved about that though as i didnt want tablets or op.

Twizzle11 Thu 20-Nov-14 16:29:36

Oh I am so sorry . I have to agree don't think I want to have intervention if at all possible . Our bodies are cruel things . Continue to prepare for baby .
If I am honest with you I think I will go tomorrow and baby stopped growing to . So preparing for the worse . Tho try to be positive I convinced on my second cycle after last miscarriage . So I can ..

I hope that things start to move quickly for you now x

Twizzle11 Fri 21-Nov-14 15:00:36

Well that's it . Scan didn't show a sac only lots of blood and clots . So hone to see how it goes over the next few days . But bleeding lighter .a bit worried that it won't come away it's self . .just numb at moment they took pregnacy test and was very strong even they didn't understand . .
I hoe things happen quickly now

gingerbreadmam Fri 21-Nov-14 15:33:40

aww twizzle im so sorry thats such sad news. least now you know i think that for me so far has been the worst part, not knowing and still having to act like youre pregnant.

i hope it happens quickly for you and you need no intervention. thats good news about conceiving though. just think this time next year it is 100000000000% possible that you will still have a baby in your arms. i hope things work out for you.

thinking of you.

Jodie1982 Fri 21-Nov-14 19:00:54

Oh Hun I'm so saddened to hear your terrible news. I hope the next few days are kind and easy on you. Wishing you a speedy recovery and best wishes for the future x

bakingtins Fri 21-Nov-14 19:03:47

Twizzle I'm very sorry to hear that. If you need advice or support on pursuing testing you'd be very welcome on the recurrent miscarriage thread on the miscarriage board.

gingerbreadmam Tue 25-Nov-14 21:18:03

how are you twizzle?

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