I'm 27 weeks pregnant and scared of everything and anything going wrong.
The things I'm most frightened of are autism and cystic fibrosis. I know there are far worse things. But autism terrifies me as it seems everybody I know who has a son has an autistic son. Some of their children are okay but I know 3 people whose sons are so severely autistic they're non-verbal and institutional care. They adore their kids but things have been so hard for everyone. The thought of not being able to communicate with my child and vice versa is horrifying to me. I don't know how I would cope with it. I am frightened it would be my fault (I have read that mothers with psychiatric histories have a higher risk- I do). I cried when I found out we were having a boy as the risk of autism is much higher. I don't want to offend anyone with this and I'm sorry if I do.
I am petrified of something going wrong during the birth and more and more so the closer it comes. I know birth trauma can cause all sort of disabilities. I've had no problems so far but I'm overweight and pretty unfit and frightened I'm not going to be able to do it and they'll be stuck and brain damaged.
Also worried about cystic fibrosis. My friend's wife has just died of this and he's devastated. She had a wonderful positive life but watching her family torn apart is shattering.
Does anyone else have these fears? Did anything help?
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magneticfield55 · 14/11/2014 15:38
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