I'm 34 weeks pregnant (unplanned) with DC5. 3 of my children still need carrying/lifting, aged 6, 3 and 11 months. Thankfully my 6 year old doesn't need much help now, maybe once a day. The others a lot more.
I feel like someone keeps jumping up and down on my pelvis. Midwife and registrar have both said it's normal which wasn't particularly helpful. I'm on the max dose of paracetamol but it doesn't help much. the NHS website says things like get other people to help with lifting/housework but with 4 DC's under 8 there is a lot to do and everyone I know who is available to help is elderly and wouldn't be able to lift the DC's.
I feel like crying/screaming every time I lift the DC's. It takes so long to do any housework that the DC's can make things worse in much less time. They are so bored because I can't do stuff like go to the park/softplay with them.
DS4 was born at 35 weeks by C-section and spent 4 weeks in NICU/SCBU so I know that begging for an early eviction would just be swapping one awful situation for another.
How can I survive the next 6 weeks?
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I can't stand this pain anymore
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elliejjtiny · 24/05/2014 15:23
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