so I'm nearly 37 weeks pg, today's my birthday, and we have dss for the week until Saturday. I'm probably going to sound really selfish now, but all that we have done that is birthday orientated is go for lunch. admittedly I had no idea what to do but we spent 2 hours in a soft play area for dss. He then copped a strop because we had to leave. went for lunch where most of it was spent with him playing on dh phone, we left there to go to the local outlet as dh wanted to treat me to something for my birthday (Yankee candles) anyway, we get there dss is bored, dh takes him into the Park whilst I look in the candle shop expecting him to come in which he didn't and I ended up buying them myself. He bought me a charm for my Pandora bracelet which of course was really lovely but whenever I buy his presents they're all surprises and I never get him to buy them for himself. is it really too much to ask for him to buy me a couple of presents that he himself has put some thought into?
All week it's revolved around what dss has wanted to do. I get that he's on half term, and doesn't see his dad very often, but your birthday is for one day of the year. I feel a bit neglected, and like I'm in the way. What has topped it off is that I ended up taking myself to the hospital last weekend as I had pains from the baby, and dh didn't even phone to see if I was ok as he was away picking dss up. again this weekend he has to take him back home (which is 4 hours away) yet he doesn't bat an eye lid at leaving me this late in the pregnancy.
I bet I sound a right miserable cow, currently sat here balling my eyes out due to stupid hormones and feeling cap :(
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Hand holding and sympathy really needed :'(
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K8eee · 27/02/2014 20:57
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