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Pregnant with 5 month old and relationship breakdown

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Kittylou2010 · 22/02/2014 23:46

I found out today that I'm pregnant - this was unplanned and a huge shock to me.
Five months ago I gave birth to my beautiful son who I love dearly.
During that pregnancy my partner was quite unsupportive but I'll put that done to nerves of becoming a daddy.
We have recently argued an awful lot to the point where I have asked him to leave our family home so that we are not arguing in front of our baby (and my 14 year old daughter from previous).
Having now found out I'm pregnant again, I'm really scared. I don't know whether I am meant to keep the baby or not.
Has anybody else been in a similar situation? What did you do? How did you deal with your choice?
(This is my first post, I'm new to mums net today x)

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Havinganose · 22/02/2014 23:49

I have no advice but don't want to read and run.

Sorry you're feeling in a sad situation.

Hopeful someone with real advice will be along shortly

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Kittylou2010 · 22/02/2014 23:51

Thank you

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Havinganose · 23/02/2014 00:07

Thinking about it. If you separate both topics to start with - firstly your relationship. You have a baby together - what's the plan? Reconciling ? Counselling?

Separately about current pregnancy - would go to gp and get all things checked as normal.

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TheOnlySeven · 23/02/2014 10:14

Hi kitty, you're probably likely to get more responses if you re-post this in the relationships topic.

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