Currently 26 weeks pg with dc 2...
Yesterday tipped me over the edge on the pregnancy comments front!!! These from one day. ONE DAY I tell you! Mainly from people at work:
'you were smaller the first time around' ..actually I weigh exactly the same as I did the first time at this stage...
'when are you going on maternity leave' x 3....do you want me to go now??!! all of you?!!!
'Are you sure it isn't twins' quite sure after 3 x scans thanks...
'Do you think the baby will come early?' errrr maybe...maybe not.... who knows... It will come when it is ready...
'Are you sure you can eat that' From the food police (lady who has never had a child/makes it clear she doesn't care for them/suddenly knows about what to eat when pg) Erm yes thanks, I am a bit obsessive about what I put into my body right now..
'Ohhhh you look very uncomfortable already' yes I am thanks, I have SPD and some back problems but it's not necessarily all to do with the baby. Do you want my medical history?
'oh you are having an ELCS?' After being badgered for info on personal business around how I will be getting the baby out, followed by 'isn't that a cop out?' er no it isn't after what happened the first time, but I won't bore you with that or you might be put off having kids yourself.
I just smile and say very little in return. Try to kill with kindness. Wish I had witty one liners on standby! I think the next person will get a slap!
One day!!!! Enough to push anyone over the hormonal irrational edge methinks!!!!
GRRRRRR!!!!
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Getting seriously fed up with insensitive comments *rant warning*
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IAteTheCake · 23/05/2013 11:10
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