This is my first post, please be gentle.
Lots of (consensual) unprotected sex= pregnancy
The father of the child has now said I am manipulative, and will ruin both of our lives, and should definitely have an abortion. He says I do not understand what it means to have a child. In short, he will probably not be involved in any way. This is not what I had been led to expect at all.
Although I am very scared, I am also excited, and I want to keep the baby. I am about 7 weeks at the moment.
I have a full-time job in London, which will allow me to be flexible around a child, I have family around who will help me, and while money will be tight and I will have to move to a cheaper flat, it is definitely manageable for me to afford childcare in the days I will need to work.
I will not be the first of my friends to have a baby. The one friend I have confided in is confident in my ability to do it.
I guess I really just wanted to check that I have covered everything in my decision to proceed with the pregnancy. Obviously, I did not dream of being a single mother, but I know of plenty of very happy single parent families (I am from one myself), but since I feel I can give the baby the love and care it needs, and can afford it, I do not think his cold feet would be a reason not to carry on.
Is there something I have forgotten to think about? Please help!
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I want the baby, he says I am irresponsible :(
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Educateme · 21/05/2013 09:41
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