GRRRR
So i am 11 weeks with an unplanned pregnancy. took hubbie some time to get used to it and was doing fine about it til recently.
Past few days he has been really grumpy with me and snappy and when i argue back he starts throwing the 'your so hormonal' at me,. Which im not being hormonal but ofcourse if you say that to me, im going to get agitated.
So last night, he is grumpy about what i made him for dinner and grumpy about not stacking the dishwasher corretly ( i do all the jobs in the house btw).
I get into bed exhausted and turn off my light and he says he wants to go to a music festival- so i will be 6 months pregnant by then,and he wants us to camp.
So i said, not a good idea we dont have the money to do that , we need to save for the baby and me not working for a year (dont live in the UK, we live in Middle East so no child benefits etc).
He said i was being selfish, that i dont think of him> since the pregnancy all i focus on is the baby and my life is now perfect and his life isnt now and why cant we do this whcih will make him happy before his life changes forever!!!!!
SO i got angry saying that its not my fault im pregnant and its unfair what he is saying.
Huge row, i burst into tears.
then he comes down and says - so are you calm now to talk!! What a wanker.
Then says that once the baby comes his life is changing and i should be more awre of his needs for these 9 months - i said and who is taking care of what i want? do you really give a crap that you 6mth pregnant wife is gonna go camp for a week so you can enjoy a festival of which i dont enjoy the music. Then he called me selfish for not coming!
Nightmare.
Why are men so f8cking stupid and annoying?!?!?
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HopefullA · 24/04/2013 06:27
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