As it says in the thread title really :(
I think I'm just having a bad week. But I can't help getting more and more stressed out and tearful - we have SO much to do - we are planning to move, either before or soon after the baby is born, and that is a huge source of stress and uncertainty. Also I am suddenly thinking about all the stuff we have to get - pushchair (have heard awful tales of waiting lists for some models), clothes, steriliser, car seat... I know it all sounds quite basic, I just suddenly feel as if I don't know what I am doing and don't know where to begin.
More seriously I am having more and more panic moments about the whole looking-after-a-newborn (and keeping it alive!) thing. DH and I don't know what the hell we are doing! I am booked onto an antenatal class starting next month which I guess may help a bit. But I am worrying about how to cope with sleepless nights, the crying (how will I know if it is serious or not?), how to feed, what the hell you DO with a new baby...
I am worried about the massive life change, not having time to myself, not being able to get out and about. I have suffered depression in the past and I know that it can be easy to get on a slippery slope of depression if you are very housebound or feel very isolated. :(
We are lucky as we will have support (my mum etc) so I know that will help and I know I am probably worrying unncessarily.
I think I am worried too as it has just been me and DH for so long now (together for donkey's years) and I am worried about there being a negative impact on our relationship as we bring a brand new person into our little duo.
I am probably just being hormonal and Christmas always stresses me out but I am just finding it impossible to stop crying at the moment and feel as if I have no idea of the future and how I/we will cope.
Any advice at all? Thanks so much.
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25 weeks and starting to feel overwhelmed and not sure how I will cope
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emeraldgirl1 · 07/12/2012 09:23
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