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MummyIsMagic79 · 25/10/2012 19:55

Hello

Am a mess. Ill, in pain, marriage on rocks, 34 weeks preg.

Have just had a VERY rare glass of wine with EE. Can I have another?

Thanks.

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weeblueberry · 25/10/2012 19:58

You can essentially do whatever you want. But a better option than having a glass of wine might be to call a friend and have a talk about what's bothering you?

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MummyIsMagic79 · 25/10/2012 20:00

I can't. I can't be 'that woman', the humilliated one who's H has left her for someone else.

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MummyIsMagic79 · 25/10/2012 20:01

I'd never jeopardize my baby. I have a DS and a DD already and have always been very strict with myself in preg. But right now it's either a cig or another wine.

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Marmiteisyummy · 25/10/2012 20:01

If you're ill then wine is likely to be unhelpful. Really sorry you're feeling this way, and as pp said, phone a friend and get some help.

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Marmiteisyummy · 25/10/2012 20:03

X post.
Soak in the bath, lots of chocolate and phone a friend?
Sounds very shit, sorry.

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MummyIsMagic79 · 25/10/2012 20:05

If the kidney pain is stopping me walking, should I call an ambo or the OOH service? Am a nursing, but am v panicked so am doubting self.