Ok so potted history
As a result of a car accident am left with Chronic back pain, unable to stand, walk or sit for long periods of time without increase in pain (no more than about 15 minutes). Sure you'll appreciate pregnancy certainly hasn't been easy but as people keep saying it will be worth it! But I am determined that I won't moan about it there are lots of people in far worse situations that I am.
Anyway, I have been consultant led and so far can't complain at all about the care and attention I've received but this is my first pregnancy and have nothing to compare it to.
Getting to that stage where they're talking about birth BUT I can't help remember one of the first things my midwife said at 8 weeks that I am likely to be brought forwards by maybe a couple of weeks with a C section as I may not be able to labour naturally. BUT when I've seen the consultant (who was quite dismissive) said that "oh lots of people cope ok with an epidural and labour naturally!" I am not sure if he appreciates just how painful this is- sorry for TMI but it's painful to even push a poo out and (under dr's orders) I have to use glycerine suppositories to help things along! At the moment, all I know is that an appointment has been made for with an anesthetist 6 weeks before due date.
I'm trying not to get anxious but I really don't want to get to a situation where I labour naturally and then have to have an emergency C section. I completely appreciate the risks both for and against. Friends (who also work in the medical profession) say that it will be a nightmare for me and I should be pushing for a planned C Section. I don't want to cause a fuss and be seen as an "pushy patient"
Any advice on what I should do as I feel that I'm getting really conflicting information from the medical experts?
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Advice re C Section please- feel like I'm being given the run around!
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lotsofthingstolearn · 02/10/2012 19:04
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