Hello ladies,
I had my first scan today. This is my first baby so wasn't really sure what to expect and I'm not sure if this feeling this disappointed by the experience is normal?
The sonographer had a student with her who she introduced and made sure I was alright with her being there which was fine with me. During the scan the monitor was faced away from me (although DP could see it) and I could hear her pointing out the baby and the heartbeat and arms and legs etc and I was expecting her to show me too but she didn't. I did have photographs taken but they're very blurred and I'm a bit disheartened that I didn't get to see my baby's heartbeat.
I'm still getting used to the idea that I'm actually pregnant and thought that seeing the baby today would make it seem a bit more real but I'm feeling more lost than before. I feel like not having the opportunity to see it 'live' has made it seem less like it's actually happening, not the other way around. I know this sounds barking mad and DP says the 20 week scan is the best one anyway (he has 2 DCs already) but I still feel a bit let down.
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osculation · 14/11/2011 23:25
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