Is there really such thing as "baby brains"?
I was supposed to meet a good friend for dinner a few weeks ago. We were going to meet at 7.30 pm at Pizza Express like we usually do once every 2 months or so. Well, around 8 pm as I was putting the the dishes away after a normal night in with my family, I suddenly realised what I had done! You can't believe the horror of knowing I had just stood up one of my best friends! I reached for my mobile to call her then realised she is one of the few people in the world who does not carry a mobile....What to do? I phoned the restaurant and explained the situation but was told she had just left. So I took a deep breath and resolved to phoning her at home thinking that the restaurant was not far from where she lives and she should be home by then. I decided to tell her the truth, it would have been too vile of me to say that I had punctured a tyre or something. I rang and spoke to her husband who said that J was not home yet, she had walked to the restaurant so it would take her at least half an hour on foot to get back home...I could picture her furious and hungry walking back in the dark cursing away at me....
The following day I rang her an apologised profusely. I said I remembered one hour late, too late as it turned out, and I was so very sorry. She was very angry still. Then I went to her house and left a bottle of wine and a note to say sorry again outside her house. She emailed back to say thanks for the wine, full stop. Since then I have not heard from her again. I tried to email her and apologise again but she has not responded.
I am feeling awful about this and wonder if you think she's been a bit too harsh or if I totally deserve her wrath! Any thoughts would be greatly welcome!
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Baby brains or in other words I stood up a friend and feel awful about it....
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beatrice75 · 11/10/2011 09:32
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