Help, ladies, because I'm getting really stressed....!
We currently rent in London and when we found out I was pg we decided this would chivvy along our plans to buy a house. The house buying itself is not a massive issue - I'm quite realistic that we might have to buy somewhere that needs some work and that the work will take longer because of the baby - but a couple of weeks ago our landlords announced they were selling our flat out from underneath us in mid-October. Sadly there is nothing we can do about that as they've given us enough notice.
The issue is that I am now 20w and we have just had a house fall through, so we are back to square 1 with only 6 weeks to be out of our flat. We're madly house-hunting at the moment but it is difficult (I'm not really up for traipsing around houses all day, and DP works difficult shifts) especially as we are moving somewhere outside of London - not really a flexible location as its the only place that meets budget, travel needs and being nearer the IL's. We've got some friends and family lined up so that we aren't completely homeless when we have to move out of our flat (on the positive side I reckon we can save a bit of money!) though of course its not ideal being in spare rooms in friends' homes when 25+w.
I'm trying not to get too stressed on the house front, though it might not sound like it - if the worst comes to the worst we will try and rent in our new location - but I am driving myself mad worrying about antenatal classes, midwife appts, and knowing the hospital where I will give birth I feel that around 30+w I would like to have some continuity of care and start to feel settled where I am, but that looks unlikely to happen. And of course it means I'll probably not be able to join any antenatal meetings (NCT books up so far in advance!) and make new friends before the birth and... aargh!
Has anyone had any experience of moving so close to their birth? Any words of advice or pearls of wisdom you could share to calm me down?! Anything would do before I drive DP mad with my stressing, its not like he isn't stressing too!!
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Advice/help - moving at an unknown time during pg (and getting very stressed about it!)
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BellaCB · 30/08/2011 20:34
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