Just wondering if anyone with this condition has been pregnant and given birth. I'm currently 35 weeks into my first pregnancy, which has been uneventful and I'm on track for a home birth.
I was diagnosed with vulvovestibulitis/vulvodynia (the names are virtually interchangeable) about 15 years ago after suffering primary unexplained dyspareunia. Sex was impossible for me for more than ten years. I then met my husband and with his patience and understanding we have been able to have intercourse. Happily, we had no trouble conceiving.
My vagina has been quite sore throughout the pregnancy. We've tried to have sex a couple of times but it hasn't been possible. Over the past week or so I've been experiencing elevated levels of pain and my vagina is extremely tender. I am starting to worry about the pain of vaginal examinations during labour, as well as how the delivery itself will affect my vaginal tissue.
You may be able to guess from my post that I am a doctor myself, so I am only too aware of the fact that very few health professionals (GPs, midwives, gynaecologists included) have any experience or even awareness of this condition. I know that there is no real treatment. The only things I have found helpful in the past have not been accessed through the NHS.
I have not mentioned my condition to my midwives because I know they, in all likelihood, will not have come across it before, and also because there is actually nothing they can do. The reason I have chosen a homebirth is to hopefully avoid as much intervention as possible. I would ideally like to avoid vaginal examinations altogether, but realise this may not be possible. I'm really hoping hypnobirthing will help me feel in control and deal with the pain.
Sorry, I realise I'm actually not asking much or making much sense - I guess I just want to hear from anyone who's been where I am now.
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Vulvovestibulitis/vulvodynia - anyone with any experience?
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CircularQuay · 22/08/2011 18:10
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