I had my 20 week scan today. I wanted to know the sex but dh didn't, so he left room when they told me. I have 3 boys already and was told today that the baby is almost definately a girl!!! I was really surprised and would have been more then happy for it to have been another boy, and relieved that it is healthy. Then we picked up our Christmas tree on the way home. It has been a lovely peachey day and I just wanted to share it! Just got to keep it a secret now!
It is going to be difficult. Fortunately because of snow I won't be able to hit the shops as we are 16 miles from the closest large town. This will give me time to calm down. We have a cupboard with a lock on and I have told my dh that anything I buy will be in there. He is so adamant he doesn't want to know that I have no desire to tell him. Friends and family think we both don't know, so I don't have anyone pressurising me! Even managed to tell my best friend all about scan and she didn't suspect a thing!