Ladies,
I an curious to know if I am going mad or if this has happened to anyone else? Since becoming pregnant in June 2010 I have been like a dog on heat and whilst my husband enjoyed the benefits of my increased libido in the early stages of pregnancy he won't touch me with a barge poll now that I am 30 wks pregnant!!! He blames his lowered sex drive on decreased sex drive yet I have caught him on porn sites watching young (20 yrs old +) girls etc etc. Now I am 35 yrs old, the size of a house, about as sexy as kebab and about as graceful as a duck. My concern is that after having a baby it is very unlikely that I will get my pre-pregnancy figure back, I will not live up to the images my husband has been getting his rocks off to whilst I have been pregnant. Should I also be concerned that he would rather have "alone time" than have sex with me. He is a loving, affectionate husband and very supportive but I don't want to be just his friend/mother of his baby I want to be his bed buddy too!
Anyone else had this concern, or am I being a ridiculous, hormonal, highly strung individual?
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SuzieNI · 13/12/2010 14:23
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