Hi,
I'm after some advice if possible.
I've just started potty training my daughter (2.5) and seemed to start well. We purchased a potty book and she went from refusing to sit on them (we have had them a while) to actively asking for them.
We did the 'sit and try' method and eventually she had a wee (which she was elated about!).
She was really excited about having knickers and would ask for them rather than a nappy so we started asking/reminding her that if she wants a wee/poo, she can let us know/go to the potty. Very few accidents and even then, we said it didn't matter and we can try next time etc. We certainly made sure we didn't show any frustration or upset.
However, since then, we seem to have issues of her holding on (for hours and hours). She will tell us she needs a wee and rush to the potty, but doesn't seem able to relax and go. We have tried distracting her, putting the tele on, ignoring, encouraging, putting a nappy back on, asking her to blow bubbles, etc.
We then decided that she perhaps wasn't ready so to leave it for a few weeks but she now doesn't want to wee in her nappy either. Yesterday I said to her that if she wants a wee, she can wee in her nappy but she refused and started crying. I then said she can try on the potty and she sat down for 20 seconds and got up, said she was finished (there was nothing there)
A minute later the same happened, went to sit, can't go, gets up and then obviously feels uncomfortable again and the process repeats. By then she is literally crossing her legs and skipping.
I've asked if it hurts and she said it did (hard to establish if she means it hurts when she goes or it hurts because she wants to go) and I intend on taking her to the doctors to check for a UTI.
I'm really not sure what the best course of action is. Do I continue and hope she learns to wee or do I try and discourage the potty so she feels comfortable about weeing in her nappy again? She is back at nursery so I sent her in a nappy and apparently she didn't mention it there and did wees as normal, but the cycle of needing a wee but not going started as soon as she got home.
We have really tried to be very low key about the potty usage so I don't think is an attention seek as she generally does
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Pottysos · 23/06/2020 23:18
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