Advice in potty training a stubborn toddler please!
My son is 26 months and I have recently read 'the gentle potty training book' by Sarah Ockwell Smith and have been following the stages in the book. My son definitely showed most of but not all the 'signs for readiness' before we began and a few months prior to starting he had voluntarily weed and pooed on his potty without being asked, looking back I think this is when we should have started the potty training as he was showing us that he was ready but we naively ignored these signs and just let him have potty time before his bath each night. (He is our first child so going in slightly blind before reading the book). My partner and I decided that during this lockdown it would be a good time to get it done so we read the book and decided to start Friday last week. Day one went really well he had two accidents but willingly went on the potty when we asked and did himself a few times. Day two was not as good, accidents were increased and when we started prompting hourly as in the book he would refuse and get angry towards us, sometimes even hitting and pinching. This has been the same for the past 3 days, he gets very distressed when we ask him, he hasn't gone to it himself since Friday and he keeps weeing behind the chair in his bedroom. The addition of pants seems to have added another layer of stress and when he occasionally agrees to try the pulling down of the pants causes him to go into a meltdown. I feel like it is causing him great stress however he is a very stubborn boy, he has been from birth so my question is do we carry on or stop for a few months and return at a later date? I am worried we are all going through unnecessary stress when if we possibly left it a while longer he would be more willing? This could not be the case though due to his stubbornness. He has fantastic communication skills and he has done every poo in the potty so far. Any help from people who have gone through something similar would be great. I know these things take time as I'm really not trying to push him to get it done it's just even having a conversation about it seems to get him worked up and I don't want to scar him leading to more problems. Thank you in advance - Rebecca
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