Hello. Just looking for some advice or experience with toilet training resistance in older children. DS2 is 3 years and 7 months and we've been trying to toilet train him on and off since he was about 2 years and 10 months. (Each time we've tried and been unsuccessful I've left it a little while before starting again). He starts school next September and I feel like I've tried absolutely everything but he just does not seem interested, doesn't even vocalise or realise he's done a wee, nothing. The last time we tried was October half term and he didn't even attempt to playball. We've got the standard potty, the frog urinal, a combined toilet seat with child insert, a seat with steps to go on the toilet, a small toilet seat cushion add on....literally everything. I've tried pom pom jars, sticker charts, rewards, story books, bubbles, not acting phased, promoting the big boy label/same as his big brother. Nothing has worked. He is at nursery 2.5 days a week and isn't influenced in any way by his peers either. I just feel like an utter failure of a parent and like he will never get out of nappies! He would happily sit in a wet crappy nappy for hours.
Not sure if it's worth mentioning but he has been put on movicol for his constipation caused by withholding. His brother (DS1) went through a horrendous episode of withholding from the age of about 3.5 and it's only really just sorted itself out in the last year (he's now just over 5). I'm not sure whether this has scared the crap (pardon the pun) out of DS2 or had some sort of affect on him/put him off toileting in general. I've been to the health visitor and the doctors, both didn't really help and just redirected me to each other, so I've given up on that front.
Thanks for reading this far if you've made it. I'm exhausted and at a complete loss and feel embarrassed for my son. Any help out there? Words of wisdom/reassurance? Any magic trick I've completely missed? Thanks.
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jaylajayne · 28/11/2019 20:33
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