Hello please help me I have 3 weeks left!! My youngest son is 4 and starting school. They are (understandably) not happy about children starting in nappies so time is very much running out.
I have 4 older children. My 9 year old is severely disabled and in nappies full time, my 11 year old is autistic & wears them at night. I then have a perfectly fine 8 year old girl.
My 4 year old has no disabilities, learning problems or anything. He's a bright lad who loves dinosaurs & animals. I just can't get him to use the toilet, or potty or anything. He is really emotionally attached to his pull up nappies. He is very body conscious, doesn't like anyone seeing his bottom and if I don't change his nappy he will do it himself to avoid anyone else doing it.
I have tried taking them away and he just tries to use his brothers. He gets incredibly distressed if he can't find a nappy and heeds a wee and if he does wet himself it's like the end of the world, really, not a temper, he is shaking and really upset. He is a happy funny boy who is so confident in all other areas. He has been going to preschool for 18 months and loved it, made several friends (all of whom use the toilet) they also tried the whole time he was there and said they'd never found a bright child get so upset by it.
He says he's scared of the toilet, but also won't use the potty. Everyone said do the whole 'running round the garden' thing in the summer but he won't even do that without a nappy on. Being tough has made it worse and reward charts haven't even started. He owns tonnes of pants with various designs on. I am out of clues now. It's not good if he gets loud and upset as it upsets my disabled son. Help! Please 😰 xx
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Mumofmany4and6 · 20/08/2017 07:34
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