DD will be 3 in Jan. She is completely resistant to anything to do with potty training, having been traumatised over an anal fissure as a baby which has resulted in severe withholding of poo and she has medication for that, which mostly works but she has a setback every time we are either away from home or have family to stay with us. I feel I can handle things, we have an excellent GP and nurse who I have faith in, so day to day is fine. However, we will be away for 6 days over Christmas, I will be taking all the meds etc with us and we have a stepped program to follow if it becomes an issue. And it will all be made worse by the grandparents.
They know the situation, they just don't seem to understand what it means for us and her especially. I get constant comments about her not being potty trained, that I should just force her, that it is all attention seeking, that I am in the wrong, that I feed her junk, that she will be not allowed to go to school, etc. She still isn't 3! She has a medical issue which is being treated and which I have been told will respond best to removing pressure, attention etc, and none of those comments are actually true. They talk about her when she is there in a negative way which I dislike, and seem to think that because none of their children or other grandchildren have had this issue, that it doesn't exist. I'm already wound up enough by them and just need some ideas for ways to cope with the barrage of comments that I know will come.
Add to that, I am 14 weeks PG and my mums only comment when we told her that was 'well you'll have to get E potty trained by the summer then'. I replied that I didn't care, she would do it when she is ready and probably be fine then, but really I'm so sick of it all. They seem to completely overlook the fact that she can read, she is confident and happy, and she is normally really well behaved when she isn't bunged up. Aarrrggghhh! Any help or just hand holding will be very welcome, thanks.
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Snowflakepie · 19/12/2012 13:22
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