Help! I am trying to potty train my DS who is 32 months now, and failing miserably. I have had potties in the house for months now, and I have explained to DS what the potty is for and try to get him to sit on it, but he screams and refuses to sit on it or even go near it.
He seems to understand the concept of using the potty, and tells me when he is doing "wee wee" or "poo poo" but when I go to take him to the toilet or show him the potty he freaks out. I have tried him on the big toilet too, but he still is not interested. I have bought him pants, and he loves wearing them, but he just wees in them if I do brave having him out of nappies.
I have tried changing him in the bathroom and suggesting he sit on the potty just for a little while, but he doesn't want to know. DH occasionally tries to get DS to sit on potty at bathtime. I have tried a few sessions where I confined him to one room with the potty and toys, and let him run around with only pants on. He has accidents, and even after I explain not to worry but to try the potty next time, we make no progress.
It doesn't help that we are living with my parents while we look for a new house, and they don't want him to have accidents on the carpet, yet they are don't really like it when I put the plastic sheet on their beige carpet (eek!) to have a potty training session as it looks messy. They seem to want him to go straight on the toilet with no accidents! While I would love a miracle like this, I can't see it happening!
My parents have suggested to wait until we get a house, which we hope will be by summer, and friends have told us to wait till summer when we can potty train outside, thus saving the beige carpet! But he will be nearly three then, I am already embarassed that he is not trained at 32 months, let alone three years old!!
So I really don't know what to do. Should I wait a while and hope DS will be more interested in the potty, the weather will be better, and we have a place of our own? If I were to continue trying potty training now, does anyone have any tips as to how to get DS interested and how to potty train avoiding accidents on grandparents' carpets?? I also have a 6 month old baby who is bf, so am also stressing out as to how to juggle both challenges!!
I'd really like to hear any advice anyone has to offer, as a first-time Mum, I have no experience of potty training and pretty much feel a failure about it all :(
Help!! Thanks ladies!
E.xx
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mammadileo · 15/04/2012 01:09
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