I am at a complete loss as to what to do next so would be grateful for any advice you can offer me.
My DS is 3 and a half, and we've been potty training him since Christmas and whilst he has moments of greatness (usually a week or so at a time) he always seems to regress backwards. Poos are (thankfully) the only thing he seems to manage on the toilet.. but wees just aren't happening. A month ago I thought we'd got there. This week I think he's only managed one wee on the loo and that was when I made him try (whilst ignoring his cries of 'I don't need one Mummy'). The trouble is, the longer this goes on the more frustrated I'm getting and I'm really not sure I'm handling it very well. My main frustration being that I know he can do it - he has done it - so why won't he do it? Has he got some sort of mental block, or is he just being lazy? Or attention seeking? (Although he's already wet himself 3 times today and I've spent the morning giving him my attention - doing puzzles, baking... ) He does have a 6 month old baby brother and the potty training did go to pot when the baby was tiny which we were expecting, but then it improved - but now he's gone backwards again! And that generally seems to be the pattern, we think he's mastered it, then he starts wetting himself again - and we're not talking the occasional accident - we're talking EVERY wee in his pants.
I'm completely exhausted with it all. He's an otherwise intelligent 3 year old - hence my instinctive feeling that he's just being lazy and doesn't want to interrupt what he's doing in order to go to the toilet. But my husband seems to think there might be more to it than that. it just doesn't seem to matter what I say - whether I tell him off, or offer him rewards... nothing seems to work.
Has anyone been through this? Can anyone offer me any suggestions?
Thank you, Tina
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TinaFay · 04/08/2011 13:13
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