My little one is 16 days old and I'm struggling. I love him to bits, but I'm so exhausted and sore and lonely now that DH is back at work that I feel I'm not enjoying these newborn days like I should be. I'd imagined hours of happy snuggles and proudly getting out and about with him in the pram...but it's as much as I can do to keep him alive day to day with the relentless cluster feeding that goes on all day long. Just going for a wee is enough of a challenge! I'm a prisoner on my sofa right now, nursing a third degree tear as well as doing hourly feeds. DH said today that he thinks LO's hair has got darker and grown longer. I hadn't even noticed!! I feel so guilty! I guess this is the baby blues and totally normal, but I wanted to reach out to other mummies who've been here. Please tell me it's just post-birth exhaustion and sleep deprivation and that one day soon I'll get my mojo back! I feel like such a rubbish wife and mum right now.
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