Hello all
I had a traumatic birth with my first born which led me to being diagnosed with postnatal depression 3 months postpartum. I got pregnant a year later - being unplanned and so soon after my previous experience, I was naturally very anxious and upset throughout my pregnancy which led me onto a short bout of antenatal depression.
I sought help from my perinatal mental health midwife who prescribed me some antidepressants however i have not taken these yet as i am adverse to medication. I was given an elective caesarian which resulted in a much more positive birth and i felt euphoric following the birth at first and breastfeeding came easily.
However i am now 2 weeks postpartum and have just been hit with a really low mood. Almost like im in this thick dark fog and i literally cannot smile or even fake joy at anything. I know i care about my child and i feel so protective over him as he is a vulnerable newborn. However i feel a disconnect with him too and i almost feel resentful as my previous PND took away my joy of my firstborn's first few months, and now instead of my firstborn i now have this new baby which i never even planned to have. All i want is my firstborns first few months back.
I feel irritable at everything, paranoid my mother thinks i suck as a mother. My husband is unemployed which has just put extra pressure on us as it has meant that we have had to live with my parents due to finance. I feel the most irritated by my husband, everything he does drives me into a rage which just comes out from me as brooding silence and sarcasm. I literally feel like i have nothing to look forward to. The only thing that keeps me going is my beautiful firstborn who i play with all the time as he is the only one that brings me happiness.
I really dont want to go through PND again and am hoping these are the baby blues. Can anyone.relate or has anyone experienced either PND or the baby blues to validate which it is that i am going through?
Thank you all x
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2nd Child - PND or Baby Blues...?
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Thsusnsjsjsh · 09/10/2018 00:40
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