My second dd is 14 weeks. I've found it much harder second time around and initially struggled to bond as she had bad silent reflux and pretty much cried all day every day for the first 10 weeks. Things are a bit better although she's still a terrible feeder. Dd1 has been challenging in that she has become very clingy and only mummy will do etc.
I'm coping ok most of the time but it's very different to how I felt after dd1. I was literally floating on air and loved pretty much every minute. I feel so guilty as I don't feel I've bonded with dd2 as well although now she's interacting and smiling I feel much better. I feel like I can't even remember most of the first 10 weeks and that I've lost precious time feeling crap.
I've just taken my second period since having her and I've noticed that the week before my period both times I've felt awful. Really depressed, angry with dh and angry with the girls and just want to run away. I've asked hubby to take them away, told him I've made a mistake having kids and that I hate my life.
None of that is true, but it feels true at that time. I don't think it's pnd as it only happens the week before my period. I have the hv coming out next week and know she's going to do my second pnd questionnaire and I don't want it to look like pnd because it's so localised.
In don't want anyone trying to put me on medication or anything.
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Roseybee10 · 17/05/2015 17:52
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