Why is it....?

[katymac]

when you do something nice (that takes very little effort) you feel all good inside....and it's quite out of proportion to the good deed.

[fishfinger]

liek a radno act of kindness

[WideWebWitch]

Because we want to be needed/liked?

[Cam]

Because it is better to give than receive

[katymac]

Thats it I think WWW, tho' I do like random acts of kindness.

Is it casting bread upon the waters (non religously) sort of what goes around comes around

[katymac]

Cam - I kind of sgree, but why?

[Papillon]

its the little things that make all the difference in the world

so don´t discount the good vibe that a small deed can bring as out of proportion!

[fishfinger]

we had a thread ont his once

[katymac]

Was there a conclusion FF?

[fishfinger]

( ps lol think those will be my last words)


she manages to say " we had a thread on this check the effin archi..........."

[fishfinger]

I cnat find it now

[katymac]

So, FF, are we allow to discuss it again as you can't find the old one?

[fishfinger]

aha


i decree that we may discyuss random acts of kindess>

[katymac]

Thank you, O greta one

My DH says the reverse is true if you're mean to people "bad things" will happen to you

[fishfinger]

think i posted this link then some are hilariosuly american - what IS it wiht thema nd cookies????

[fishfinger]

scroll donw
look howmany are food realted - thats why the amercians are fat porkers

[katymac]

If you plan to do "good" things doesn't that kind of negate the meaning

If you only do them so you feel good - that's wrong isn't it

[fishfinger]

no i dont hink so
I planned to haev a freinds kids last weekend a nd i really di it so she and her dh could get away
kids were good fun too

[Cam]

Because we're here to help each other

[katymac]

But you didn't think "well if I look after their kids - they will like me more" or even if I have her children she will have mine oneday

Which I feel that american site is a bit that way

You probably said "they'd really like it and it's easy enough to do" or something..not what I will get back in return