First visit to a Synagogue: suggestions please

[Masie24]

I want to know more about the Jewish faith as I have Jewish ancestry and feel drawn to what I understand to be some of principles of the faith. It's altogether a side of my family history that I've ignored because, when my parents were alive, we didn't talk about it much.

I'm a practising Catholic but still I want to explore, not with the intention necessarily of converting, but of deepending my knowledge and understanding.

I've got the chance (because of where I'll be) soon to go to a progressive Synagogue. Can I simply turn up - should I give the Rabbi/office a call first? There's no Synagogue near where I live. Even in this liberal setting, would I need to observe eg dress etiquette (and DH if he comes with me)? I'd certainly make myself known at some point, especially as it may not be the only time I'll go. It seems, on the face of it, to be a welcoming and inclusive place but I don't want to do anything that might seem inappropriate. Many thanks.

[Bluedogyellowcat]

In a progressive synagogue people will be smart casual. Some people may wear skirts or dresses but it’s not compulsory however I probably would on your first visit. Men will be expected to wear a skullcap, women have the option.

The service will mostly be in English.

I would give the synagogue office and ring and let them know you are coming but equally it’s fine to just turn up. There will almost certainly be security and you may have your bag checked. It’s likely that there will be members / wardens to greet you and will probably say Shabbat Shalom to you and respond with exactly the same. It means good sabbath. It’s likely there will be a kiddish afterwards which is good and drink and a chance to have a chat to people. They’re usually a bit of a bunfight as people especially children rush to get to the food. It’s generally a small thimble of whisky / wine / grape juice and the rabbi will say a prayer and then generally it includes some more traditional foods such as pickles / fish balls / cake / biscuits / Herring and people hang around for 15/20 minutes before going home

[Masie24]

Very many thanks! I'll take up all your suggestions and am very much looking forward to next Saturday.