universal law / cosmic ordering

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calling fellow orderers.
ive ordered before 8yrs ago. but as the saying goes 'be careful what you wish for!' I asked for a partner, wrote down a brain storm kinda order with things like - has a child (as I do) drives, nice personality, non smoker and such....
so got one but missed a few pointers, I should have added knows what soap is, has good hygiene, healthy eater, for the family to be nice and get on with, to like my kids! amongst others.... now an ex order.....

any way point of thread. I want to re-order, not just a partner but to be happy but im not sure what that is? I don't want to order wrong again. I don't like where I live but its convenient, yet I know im not happy or I wouldn't be thinking of moving. im on my own (with dd 7yrs) with no family and i crave loved ones yet I have bpd so id be hard work for some one to love so I know I would cause any order to fail due to negative feelings.
can any one advice me on what to write, say, do. I want to do a picture board too.

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ok can I order some replies please

[SandAndSea]

I'm into law of attraction and conscious manifestation. Years ago, I manifested a big life change all at once. What I realised was that I had been giving the universe (or whatever you want to call it) mixed messages. It's sometimes referred to as split energy. Take your username for example! :)

You could just get happy. Practise appreciation. Play games. Watch comedies. Just get off the subject and it will come to you. (Unless you're giving out negative thoughts without realising.)

Or, you could take more time each day to focus positively on what you want. It doesn't have to be 100%. Vision boards etc are great for this.

Also, if you get a partial match, don't be glum about it. See it as a road sign on your journey showing that you're going in the right direction, you're just not there yet.

Happy to answer any questions. :)

[RickOShay]

Could you order courage?

[SandAndSea]

Just to add that you don't have to worry about the detail too much - the universe knows what you want. (When I started practising appreciation, I manifested a huge life dream which I'd actually forgotten about!)

Be light about it.

[SandAndSea]

Rick, you could try. I think if you started to think about how that would feel and practised that, it might well come to you. But, if you want courage from a place of resisting fear, you might well feed more fear.

[PippaPiper]

Interesting. I was reading about the law of attraction just recently.

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sorry I thought this was a dead thread. I only see when I looked in watched threads.
sandandsea am I over thinking then? I thought you had to put details, Im not sure what it is I need to make me happy? I have bpd so generally struggle with life. I know I need something, something is missing? I would say a person be it a friend or loved one but I don't do well with people so I just counteract all positive wishes!
anything you think could help is much appreciated.