I have been in a relationship with a new man for three months, however we have only been "open" about it for a week or so, due to me having a child, both in previous long term relationships etc.
He has had to fly home as matter of urgency as a relative is very sick.
Home is Ireland, he is Catholic, and attends mass when at home and on special occasions. And sometimes just because he feels like going (I'm just trying to give an idea of how "religious" he is).
I am an atheist. We have discussed this, we are both fine and happy about excepting each others beliefs, but he has acknowledged that some older relatives of his would not be happy with him being in a relationship with an atheist. Although, he is happy for them to think as they please and that it doesn't bother him.
However, he told me today, that whilst catching up with his mother he told her about me. Somehow, it got round to the conversation that he hadn't told her that I have a daughter. When I queried it, he joked that he didn't want to give her a heart attack??
Now, I'm aware it's a new relationship, he hasn't seen his family for months, and that it is a stressfull time for his family.
But a small part of me is troubled, and feels he may be ashamed of the fact I have a daughter and that I was never married to her father.
Am I reading too much into this do you think? Would any of you done the same thing, or do I have a reason to think this may be a problem?
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Is there any people of faith that can give me an insight into why my new boyfriend is with holding info about me to his religious parents??
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WineAndSunMakesMeHappy · 26/05/2013 22:53
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