So I am going to start this by saying I know I am an arsehole.
Me and my husband bought a dog shortly after finding out I was pregnant. I've wanted a dog for years and after moving to the country and leaving my job we decided it was finally a good time and thought the pup would be trained by the time our little bub arrived.....yes in hindsight this was stupid.
We got a red coloured labrador. Long story short he drives me absolutely insane. I have never met a crazier dog. He has no aggression in him but he doesn't realise his size and is very stubborn.
He graduated puppy training....would you believe it after pooing on the hall floor on graduation night....we are pretty sure it was a pity graduation as he did not improve at all over the 6 week corse.
He is never still, destroys everything we buy him, I can't even remember the number of beds he has got through. I constantly have torn up dog items all over the house. He runs around the house for the most part of the day throwing his toys in the air or at me or sits at my feet whining at me. He has to be locked away when people come over as he tries to become their new scarf. He jumps up guests constantly, has given multiple people nosebleeds and bites ears and nibbles in what he thinks is a playful manner, leaving guests drooly and scratched.
We now have a 10 week old baby. I am constantly on edge that he is going to hurt her. Not on purpose but because he is so crazy. I can't put her on the floor for tummy time etc and I'm finding it really frustrating. I've tried locking him out of the front room but he whines/howls the whole time and I feel super guilty. Plus he barks every time a person or large vehicle passes our house so wakes her up all the time.
He gets told off so much and it makes a really horrible atmosphere in our home.
He gets a long walk from my husband each day and we have quite a large garden for him to roam in. I don't know how to expel any more energy from him. I can't take him out with the baby as he pulls so bad on the lead and I can't have him off lead as he jumps up people and doesn't return once called if he finds something more interesting.
I am really at the end of my tether and am strongly considering adoption....hence the arsehole thing....but I really dont know what else to do....it isn't me to think like this, I am an animal lover and feel so awful even thinking it. My husband is strongly against giving him up and it's caused quite a few arguments, as has me moaning about the dog all the time.
Am i awful for considering adoption? What would you do??? Any suggestions are more than welcome.
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Holly2704 · 12/07/2019 07:31
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