Year 1 party, DS will be 6 and we are thinking of a party in a hall with an entertainer.
I've gone through an invite list with DS, there are 4 children who are not at his school and 15 from his class. I think the class numbers are 29/30, I don't have a class list so I'm not sure of the precise number or gender split.
DS wants to invite all but two of the boys plus 6 girls, so in total about 15 of 29/30 children from the class would be invited. Of the two boys, DS has problems with one of the boys at the start of the term, both boys are new to his class this year.
The boy that DS has trouble with was too physical, hands round throat physical. I spoke to his teacher twice about it and it appears to be sorted, although it took a couple of weeks. It ended when DS fought back and hit him, it was seen in the playground and the teachers spoke to them all again. I'm not blaming the boy, it is difficult to settle into a new school with established friendships. This boy plays with the close group of friends that DS has in the class, all of whom are invited. They appear to play together fine, although they are all playing very physically. DS doesn't want to invite him as he doesn't think that he will enjoy his party if he is there or that this boy may be naughty. I have pointed out to DS that they may feel upset if they are not invited.
I want DS to enjoy his party but I don't want children to feel left out. Do I persuade DS to invite the boy that he had issues with, if I did, I would invite the other boy so that he didn't feel left out. However if I do, I am then inviting just over half the class and I don't want to do a whole class party. Any ideas / comments? Am I overthinking this?
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BlueberryHill · 27/11/2012 17:45
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